June
16, 1944 - July 21, 2009
Gary
passed away on July 21, 2009, due to a long battle with pulmonary fibrosis
and other complications due to this disease.
Notes
from Gary Wolff's memorial celebration
7-30-2009
The
church was filled with uniformed officers, union officers and
members, family and friends.
State
Sen. Dennis Nolan, R-Las Vegas, in full Scots kilt attire, played
two selections, including Amazing Grace, on his bagpipes.
Cross-cutting
all the comments about Gary were memories of what he had taught
young officers both through his experience and personal example
Perhaps his
most lasting legacy lies in his post-retirement union advocacy.
On his watch, Nevada Highway Patrol officers received from the
Nevada Legislature parity with the best-compensated law enforcement
officers in the state. (At that time, in 2003, that meant the
City of Henderson Police Dept.)
This alleviated
the longtime ongoing loss of experienced officers to local law
enforcement agencies with NHP as a training ground.
Andrew Barbano
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Gary was born in Vienna,
Austria, and came to America in 1948 with his mother and sister.
As a young man, he became
a trooper for the California Highway Patrol.
He moved to Reno in 1972
and worked for the Nevada Highway Patrol until his retirement as a sergeant
in 1996.
After his retirement, Gary
remained dedicated to the men and women in the state law enforcement
community as a business agent and lobbyist continuing the advancement
and service of his colleagues.
He leaves a legacy of accomplishments
to the benefit of his brothers and sisters in law enforcement.
Gary loved to play golf and travel with his wife, Wendy. He was also
a great fan of the Oakland Raiders and loved to cook for his family,
especially during the holidays and on special occasions.
He is survived by his wife and best friend, Wendy; his mother, Frieda
Baum; sister, Kathy (Bill) Taylor; daughters, Mary (Jeri) Wolff, Angela
(Bill) Chavera, Sandi (Jim) Reandeau and Shelley (Bodie) Monroe; son,
Blair (Julie) Harkleroad; nieces, Vicki (Fred) Kollar and children,
Lexi (John) Kowtko and children, Jamie (Al) Granite and his adoring
grandchildren, Adam, Brooke and Hudson. He was also deeply loved by
all of Wendys family.
A memorial service was held at 11:00 a.m., Thursday, July 30, 2009,
at Sparks Christian Fellowship, 510 Greenbrae Drive, Sparks, Nevada.
In lieu of flowers, donations
may be sent to the Pulmonary Fibrosis Foundation, 1332 North Halsted
Street, Suite 201, Chicago, IL 60642-2642.
Published in the Reno Gazette-Journal from 7-26 to 7-28-2009
Remembrances
of Gary
will remain permanently
posted on this page at NevadaLabor.com.
Send
additional comments to Andrew Barbano.
GOODBYE,
WOLFFMAN. Longtime union leader and retired Nevada Highway
Patrol Sgt. Gary Wolff will be laid to rest at a memorial service
this Thursday, July 30. It begins at 11:00 a.m. at
the Sparks Christian Fellowship Church, 510 Greenbrae Drive in the Greenbrae
Shopping Center.
A potluck reception will follow. "Guests from the area are requested
to bring a little extra, as we anticipate guests from around the state
that would have a logistical hardship bringing a dish. Beverages will
be supplied by the Nevada State Law Enforcement Officers' Association,"
according to an official statement released by the union.
Donations to the family may be made at Nevada State Bank, account number
0558034575. For more info, contact Trooper Lori McGrath at 775-846-4685.
I worked side-by-side with Gary for more than a decade. He was a credit
to law enforcement and organized labor. He passed away at his home in
Reno on July 21 at age 65.
Among his survivors are a
son and daughter, both with NHP. Sgt. Blair Harkleroad lives
in Reno and Trooper Angela Chavera works out of Las Vegas. She
started with the patrol in 1995. Sgt. Harkleroad joined in 1996. Gary
spent six years (1966-72) with the California Highway Patrol and 24
with NHP (1972-1996).
Rest in peace, Wolffman.
You did real good.
Be
well. Raise hell.
From
Barbwire by Barbano, Daily Sparks Tribune, 7-26-2009
August 04, 2009
Sandy and I were inseparable for many years. Gary treated like family.
He listened when I needed an ear. In my fondest memory he helped when
my baby brother split his lip open, while my parents were away. I was
unprepared to deal with the situation. I called Gary and he calmed me
down and told me what I needed to do. I have three boys of my own and
with each injury, I can hear Gary's voice telling me to be calm and
I can handle anything. I really admired him and he's sorely missed.
Brandy Williams,
Tallahassee, Florida
August 04, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathy and condolences for your recent loss
of Gary. I grew up with Blair and remained friends with him as adults.
I also care very deeply about another "son" to Gary who loved
Gary as his own father. Although I never personally knew Gary, I do
know he had to be an amazing, loved, and well-respected person with
a big heart to have made the impact he did. May God bless you (his family
and friends) and also give you hope, strength, and peace during this
difficult time.
Jamie Riffel,
Reno, Nevada
July 31, 2009
Gary Wolff left his print on this earth. He will long be remembered,
especially by me. No matter what pressures he had on his mind, he never
failed to make others smile.
Donna Cuzze,
Las Vegas, Nevada
July 31, 2009
My condolences extends to
the family and friends of Gary.
I never met Gary, but I've known Blair for several years.
May God's love surround you and comfort you in your loss.
With deepest sympathy,
Joyce Riffel,
Reno, Nevada
July 29, 2009
gary was one of the warmest, funniest people i've ever known. i found
him to be a loving husband to my sister wendy and a great father,grandfather
and uncle to all of his kids and their kids... he loved them all very
much.. i will miss his smile and words of wisdom and his stories, i
know he is smiling down on all of us and would not like us to be sad
that he can no longer be here on earth with us. he is busy now golfing
and cooking for people and telling funny stories.
if he can hear me i would want him to know how much he is loved and
missed by all of us.
love and peace,
marna
south lake tahoe, california
July 27, 2009
Dear Wendy and Wolff family
members:
WOLFFMAN That was
what all kinds of folks called Gary at the Nevada legislature.
There, he was a constant-moving
dervish of a man who fought to make better lives for working citizens
and peace officers alike. For four sessions I watched and helped Gary
work the halls to get good bills passed and bad bills killed. When we
lost a good bill, Gary said it was just one step back so we could win
another day. When we passed a good bill, he cautioned our celebration,
saying our victory was just a new line drawn in the sand we would now
have to protect.
Gary was so good at this
work that legislators and lobbyists would often chuckle, shake their
heads and say, That Wolffman who would have thought that
bill would pass? It was the highest of compliments, and it often
came from bill opponents.
Working with Wolffman for
over eight years on political issues, Gary and I became colleagues and
friends who knew we could truly count on one another. That in itself
is a gift he has left me of gigantic proportion. To us all, Gary leaves
a legacy of honor, love, strength and integrity seldom seen today in
any profession. My heart is heavy, but I am so glad he and I walked
and worked and laughed during our days at the Legislature, for I will
carry these stories his stories - in my heart until the end of
my days.
My heartfelt condolences to you, Wendy, and the entire Wolff family.
He will be sorely missed by so many.
Kathy Naumann,
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
July 27, 2009
Mary,
Angela & Sandi-I have many cherished childhood memories growing
up of you and your wonderful dad in Sparks. The time he "rescued"
my dad with the full law enforcement effect sirens & lights spiriting
him to the hospital due to painful kidney. Our neighbor, Gary, the hero:)
I was just thinking about Gary the other day with fondness wondering
what he was up to and then this sad news. I am so sorry and I am so
grateful to have known him. You are in my thoughts are prayers.
Staci Peterson
Sparks, NV
July 28, 2009
Oh Mare, I am
so sorry, I had no idea. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your
family. Lots of Love to you, Michele
July 28, 2009
What a truly
inspirational/caring man Gary was. He changed my life in ways that never
seemed possible. He will be greatly missed! Thanks to his daughter Sandi,
we will keep his memory alive! God Bless!"
Robyn Cawiezell-Miller
Raleigh, NC
July 27, 2009
My thoughts and prayers to Gary's family. Gary taught me a great deal,
and he was a tireless advocate for the Troopers he and I both represented.
The quality of union representation just went down with Gary's passing.
What a great guy! Thanks for everything, Gary. Have a safe journey.
Ian Silverberg
Reno, NV
July 27, 2009
To my Second Father
I cannot express, in words, the grief and sadness I am feeling at the
loss of one of the most important people that I have ever known, Gary
Wolff. I know that my grief and sadness is shared by all who knew him.
Throughout our many private conversations that we had with each other,
one statement stood above all others..Gary's love and devotion for his
family and true friends. Many times he told me that he felt blessed
to have met such a wonderful woman as his Wendy, or as he put it, the
"love of his life!" As for his children Mary, Sandy, Angela,
Shelly, and Blair, it was abundantly clear that he was very proud of
who they were (as any father should be) and of how they had matured
into adulthood and the accomplishments they had achieved in their respective
lives..he beamed whenever each of their names came up in conversation.
his grandchildren, Adam, Brooke, and Hudson, were the twinkle in his
eyes. He adored his sister Kathy and loved his mother, Frieda, with
all of his heart.
Gary was an asset to the law enforcement profession and epitomized the
term "a cop's cop!" He took that stellar reputation into his
second profession-that of a lobbyist and business agent for the Nevada
Highway Patrol Association and the Nevada State Law Enforcement Officer's
Association where he was well respected in the Nevada Legislature for
his work and efforts there. My daughter, Alyssa, and I know that Gary
is in a better place and at peace with God; yet, we are devastated by
his passing from this earth. We both LOVED gary with all of our hearts
and we send that love to his family and friends. A few years ago, I
endured one of ther most difficult times, professionally and personally,
in my life. As my world crumbled around me, Gary came to my side, stood
there and supported me and never left my side. his dedication and commitment
to me then, and when I lost both of my parents recently, never wavered
and I will NEVER forget that as long as I live! God bless you Gary...I
am looking forward to the day when we will see each other again! I miss
you "Dad"
Stewart Handte,
Reno, Nevada
July 27, 2009
To My Second Father
I cannot express in words the grief and sadness I am feeling about the
loss of one of the most important people that I have ever known, Gary
Wolff, and I know that my grief and sadness is shared by all who knew
him. Gary cherished his family and friends and was so devoted to both
that there aren't enough adjectives to describe that devotion. In the
many conversations that I had with Gary, he felt truly blessed with
the "love of his life", Wendy; his children Mary, Sandy, Angela,
Shelly, and Blair whom he was so very proud of, and his grandchildren
who brought so much joy to his life that he always smiled when we talked
about them. Gary was an asset to the law enforcement profession..the
epitome of the phrase "a cop's cop!" His stellar reputation
followed him into his second profession, as a legislative lobbyist and
business agent for the Nevada Highway Patrol Association and Nevada
State Law Enforcement Officer's Association, where he was very well
respected in the Nevada Legislature for his legislative work and efforts.
A few years ago, during an extremely difficult time in my life, Gary
stood by me as my world crumbled around me, and never left my side!
I will never forget his dedication to me during that time. My daughter
Alyssa and I loved Gary with all of our hearts..our lives will never
be the same without you in them! God bless you "Dad"...I will
see you again some day!
Stewart Handte,
Reno, Nevada
July 27, 2009
Shelly,
I am so sorry for the loss of your father. Our prayers are with you
and your family.
Fawna & Billie Gregory
July 27, 2009
To the family and friends of Gary please accept our deepest sympathies.
Gary was a super person, an excellent advocate, a highly respected professional
peace officer and a great friend. We had many excellent conversations,
disagreements and agreements. I enjoyed all of my graveyard conversations
with him while on patrol years ago. I enjoyed all of our debates at
the legislature. But mostly, I enjoyed having Gary as a friend. I will
really miss him. From all the professional peace officers of our great
state we thank him for all he gave to all peace officers. Rest in peace
Gary. You truly deserve the rest. Ron
Dreher - Retired Reno PD
Ron Dreher,
Reno, Nevada
July 26, 2009
Wendy,
We're so very sorry for your loss. Gary was a great guy and a true gentlemen.
He'll be missed and remember by the very many lives he touched.
Melodie and Ed Harney
July 26, 2009
Though I did not know Gary on a personal level, I had great respect
for him as a fellow Officer for many years and for the professionalism
he carried on, in the behalf of the NHP. I Am very sorry for your loss.
Walt Hines
Taylorsville, California
July 26, 2009
Wendy,
I cannot begin to tell you how much Gary meant to me. When I was new
to the lobbying game, Gary took me by the hand and introduced me to
people that could help me and my fellow workers' cause. That being railroad
safety in Nevada. He did this and asked for nothing in return. I will
always remember him and what a fine upstanding gentleman he was. I will
always cherish his memory in my heart. God bless you and yours.
Jack Fetters
United Transportation Union
July 26, 2009
We have so little time here with one another, but my uncle used his
time well. He was the most caring, giving, intelligent, hard working,
fun to be around, and often downright hilarious person that I have ever
known. He will be sorely missed by many people, but he will be remembered
by a family who will never be able to fully let him go. Although, I
know he is most likely in heaven playing a round of golf with Papa and
eating all of the things he loved to cook. I am saddened that I will
not be there for his service, but I know that I don't need a memorial
service to honor my uncle because I will do that in my everyday life.
I pray for my family that they can make it through this tough time and
I am so sorry for this earth to have lost such an amazing person. Love-Jamie
and Al
Jamie Granite
Weston, Connecticut
July 26, 2009
To the Wolff family: I share your mourning with the passing of Gary.
I was a fellow lobbyist during many sessions of the Nevada legislature.
He was dedicated in his advocacy for public safety personnel. Your loss
is shared by many.
Danny Coyle, AFSCME Local
4041
Carson City, Nevada
July 26, 2009
I didn't know gary personally but i'm friends of sandi.I must say if
sandi was a replica of her dad than he was a great man.Please accept
my condolences and prayers on behalf of my family and my late 6 year
old son connor.May god bless your family as i'm privaledged to meet
and know one of your families members!
Sincerely,
matt edmunds and family God bless.
Matthew Edmunds,
Londonderry, New Hampshire
July 26, 2009
We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you
and your family.
Jim and Becky Heryford
July 26, 2009
Wendy, I am very sorry for your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with
you and your family. May the blessings be. Tamsen
July 26, 2009
I am so very sorry to hear about Gary. I worked with him for many many
years when I worked in Reno Justice Court. I am so sorry Wendy for your
loss. He will be sorely missed. A very wonderful person.
Sandi Specht
Reno, Nevada
Remembrances
of Gary
will remain permanently
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Send
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